"Everybody cheats, the only difference is the extent of their cheating..."

I heard this over the radio and it was really a very interesting and truthful statement. If you think about it, you'll realize that everyone is actually guilty of cheating. Whether it be in an exam or in a relationship... it's just that the extent of your cheating defines the act as being forgivable or unforgivable.

All of a sudden, I realized that I'm a cheater... I got my non-pro license thru cheating! Gosh! Moving on to the more serious form of cheating... cheating when you're in a commitment... definition? It's incredibly hard... When you exchange flirtatious conversations with another person... does that mean, you're cheating? What about eye contact with a guy that's across the bar... does that define it? We all know that it's really cheating when you have a sexual relationship (includes kissing, hugging, etc) with another person.

When you say that you still hold your loved one's hand at the end of the day does not mean you don't engage in cheating... you can do all of the above and still hold his/her hand at the end of the day, maybe even look straight into their eyes and tell them you love them. (which may be true)

Then another question comes to mind... Why would you cheat on the person you love? Hay naku! How confusing! Maybe it's physical? Or maybe its knowing that someone else out there likes you... So, you encourage that feeling because it makes you feel good, makes you feel wanted and admired... at the expense of your loved one.

Maybe it's true about what most guys say... it's not cheating if you don't get caught. Huh?